In a large number of my readings, I clearly see extremely loving and caring individuals who try their utmost to make the best of situations in their lives. Especially in marriage.
Even when they know they aren’t experiencing a real sense of personal happiness from these situations, many of them still come through as trying to find a place of balance for themselves somewhere in the mix of things. Despite how really unhappy they are.
This ability to ‘adapt’ to what Life hands us is an admirable quality.
Unfortunately, it’s difficult to spend an entire lifetime merely settling for what we have – when our hearts yearn to embrace so much more.
Particularly where love and happiness are concerned: My perception is that we deny ourselves some of Life’s most fulfilling moments in order to maintain that balance, because we try to adapt so well to far less than satisfactory circumstances.
My perception from my card readings will generally indicate a period of major change developing when we just sit mired in such complacency. While partners might profess never to leave their marriages or relationships, the cards will indicate it is extremely possible that will happen over the course of the next few years.
It’s important to remember that the cards hold a very strong “meant to be” quality in terms of our relationships with others. Intuitively speaking, marriages are often perceived to be in a state of flux or decline for quite some time. After all, we grow and change as we get older.
When affairs take shape, it isn’t that a drifting partner “wants his cake and to eat it too”, it’s more that the relationship itself has grown stagnant and lacking in fulfillment for both spouses. One just happens to be more adaptable than the other.
The pressure of being so adaptable will inevitably lead toward a huge emotional upheaval or serious blow-out. We can only placate an unfulfilled existence for so long.
The best thing you can ever possibly do for yourself is refuse to simply settle in life – whether it’s a job, a living arrangement, marriage, family situation – you owe it to yourself to always reach for true happiness and fulfillment.
Anything less puts you on the downside of being adaptable…an extremely unrewarding place to be.
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