Love is a strength, never weakness
This is a huge issue with so many of those who come to me for readings.
Especially women.
Women needing someone to confide in, to confess to. Even cry to. They’re desperate for comfort and struggle for a way to cope – somehow – with their guilt after cheating. So often that tends to be me that they come to and for good reason.
I help them find their way out of the quagmire they find themselves in.
Right off the top in their readings, I never fail to perceive that these women need to decide, first and foremost, where their hearts truly lie. Is it with the one they are committed to? Or are they so unhappy and lacking fulfillment in their relationships or marriages that they need to explore a relationship with someone else? So often, the reason they slide into affairs is simply not feeling loved enough.
It happens.
Truthfully? My perception in readings is that these women have emotionally outgrown their attachment to the men in their lives or feel so neglected as partners that they subconsciously find themselves looking elsewhere. They see someone. A spark ignites. They ultimately can’t help themselves. Cheating suddenly happens.
My advice is, if you've cheated but want sincerely to make your marriage or your relationship work in the aftermath, don’t tell your partner. There’s nothing positive to be gained by confessing your infidelity. Why hurt that partner needlessly? They don’t deserve it.
On the other hand, if you feel you’ve cheated because you need something more for yourself emotionally, let that partner go. He deserves to be loved for all the right reasons.
Move on smartly toward your own happiness and fulfillment. So he can, too.
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I don’t generally advocate revenge when I’m conducting readings for clients.
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In a large number of my readings, I clearly see extremely loving and caring individuals who try their utmost to make the best of situations in their lives. Especially in marriage.
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Ask yourself right now, how connected are you when it comes to your own identity?
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It happens.
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Ask yourself right now, how connected are you when it comes to your own identity?
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Often, we encounter some of the most beautiful and charismatic people that we seem to mesh with instantly; however, there’s a serious challenge that comes attached to these relationships and it can be a huge hurdle to overcome.
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Do you have the mind of a scientist?
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So many of us have lived disastrous lives in the past, striving our hardest to overcome the pain we suffered so long ago.
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So often we meet those that we feel we can really click with.
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Those driven by performance and perfectionism come down very hard on themselves whenever they meet setbacks or outright failure on the paths they’ve chosen to take to the future.
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I don’t generally advocate revenge when I’m conducting readings for clients.
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In a large number of my readings, I clearly see extremely loving and caring individuals who try their utmost to make the best of situations in their lives. Especially in marriage.
Nov 12, 2025 4:24 AM
Ask yourself right now, how connected are you when it comes to your own identity?
Nov 12, 2025 4:24 AM
It happens.